Monday, February 17, 2014

"APFLH" Children's Art Studio- The Art of Love

My children were excited when I told them we were hosting a special
Valentine's Crafts and Kid's Movie Night



We moved the couches, brought in the tables and chairs from the
Children's Art Studio, and provided everyone with materials
to create cards and crafts to share with the people they love... 

Heart Art 


We watched a movie about believing in the impossible
and just as the movie was ending

my mother called to inform me that my younger cousin was visiting from Texas,
and my aunt was on her way to my house so that she could say "hello"

As I waited for them, I began to think about...

my cousins
my family
my children

and all of the moments we have shared in this house

I remembered that
she was actually one of my first "child care students"
 

when I babysat her and her older sisters the summer of 1990

and NOW she travels with a company performing stage plays for children 
because she says it combines two of her greatest loves... art and children

It was the perfect full circle moment!


The next day another one of my former students
and her mom came by for...

Marble Painting



The perfect culminating moment to this weekend experience came when
the mom asked her 4 yr. old daughter if she was ready to leave my house 

and

without looking up
without blinking 
without hesitation

she calmly answered...

"NEVER!"

and I smiled
realizing that my life's

work
passion
purpose

is still

and will always be
right here

UP NEXT...

Thursday, February 13, 2014

A Lesson in Love... Don't Miss the Bus

He ran with a limp

It looked
quite painful to be honest
quite odd

until I actually saw the object of his affection...

the city bus

And he would have to cross two lanes of traffic to get there
with no guarantee that the bus driver would even wait for him

but he was

willing to risk it
willing to run

with arms waving and a noticeable limp, not caring who saw his desperation because...

his purpose was greater than his pride

And amazingly enough the world around him stopped moving
as drivers and street pedestrians alike paused

silently cheering
watching
praying

"C'mon, you can make it.  You can make it"

and when he finally did
there was a collective sigh of relief because

he had conquered what so many of us often

avoid
fear

and that is allowing others to see

our limp
our vulnerability
our weakness

We would much rather just wait for the next bus
than to put ourselves out there like that

But in life we must be willing to... 

say it
show it
give it
live it

BECAUSE... 

we cannot truly live, unless we are willing to love, and
we cannot truly love, unless we are willing to run

across lanes of traffic during the middle of the day

arms waving
limping awkwardly toward our goal

eyes filled with desperation...

and hope

as others stop to

watch
cheer

(or maybe even laugh and point)

We cannot truly celebrate love
unless we are willing to put ourselves out there like that, but

today I was reminded by a total stranger that...

It is okay to run with a limp
as long as you also run with a purpose!

Click to read...

Saturday, February 1, 2014

Remembering the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly

February is
"The Month of Love"

and in addition to Valentine's Day
in our home we also celebrate...

my hubby's birthday
my mother's birthday
our wedding anniversary

all within a matter of two weeks!

So...

we take pictures
we document
we talk about

and revisit

the moments that
have made us

laugh
cry
scream

and everything else in-between because

We celebrate by remembering...

that our greatest lessons in love
have come from learning to see the beauty
within these everyday moments


My hubby created this chocolate surprise for our anniversary
a few years ago, and we loved it so much that the following year
I decided to bring out the fountain again for his birthday...

Only problem?

I didn't watch the fountain

and...

the chocolate exploded

and...

splattered all over

the table
the tray
the floor

the curtains
the wall
the door

(no, this isn't Dr. Seuss)

But then...

as we were cleaning "the mess" one of the children
pointed out the design that had been created

so we decided to set the tray out as it was,
and some of the guests actually thought
the chocolate drizzle was intentional...

a "Jackson Pollock" art inspired dessert tray!


and I realized that sometimes...
mistakes can be beautiful

and
that we

honor our love
celebrate our love
share our love

when we remember

the true story...
the full story...
the entire story...

which includes

the good
the bad

and even
everything else

in-between