Thursday, June 5, 2014

A Lesson from Peter... In Just Six Verses

While reading Matthew 16:13-27,
I received an unexpected

"Lesson From Peter"

and Jesus' response to Peter in 
verses 17 and 23 that stood out in particular
                                                                
17. And Jesus Answered "Blessed art thou, for flesh and blood hath not revealed it unto thee, but my Father which is in heaven".          

23. But he turned, and said unto Peter, Get thee behind me, Satan: thou art an offence unto me for thou savors not the things that be of God, but those that be of men  

And I couldn't help but notice that...

Peter went from being praised
to being reprimanded...

from being called blessed
to being called an offence...

from being enlightened by God
to being used by Satan...

in just six verses!

And it is clear that Peter had other problems

ups and downs
good encounters
bad ones

At times he was attacked
other times he was the attacker

He denied
He lied
He drew the sword

because

Peter had issues...
Peter was human...
Peter was imperfect...

and yet he was chosen
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Standing on the Rock
 by Tondra Denise
 
The tide rolled out every afternoon
and I watched it from the shore 
 
 The tide rolled in every afternoon
each day the same as before
 
God showed me by rolling back the tide
that daily He's ever near
 
So standing on the Rock is where I'll be
and I'll never have need to fear
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 and as we watch Peter

grow in God
mature
receive the keys to the Kingdom

(and the precious gift of the Holy Ghost)

we begin to see less of his inconsistencies

as he begins to use all of that misdirected passion
to bless others and lead them to salvation

(And here is the lesson...)

Because if we too, are to be successful in this journey
we must also battle our inconsistencies

We must all battle
our own inconsistencies

misdirected passions
ideologies
selfish ambitions

and shift the focus from...

what others do,
and how it affects me

to

what I do,
and how it affects others

We must not only talk grace,
we must walk it

daily

If we truly want to replace our
public failures with private victories

We must learn from Peter

so that when the six verses are finally up
it ends with "Well done"

Saturday, May 31, 2014

"APFLH" Children's Art Studio... Bubbles

The weather was warm and it was the perfect day
to break out the bubbles along with...

a recycled cup and funnel...

a repurposed paper towel holder...
 
a large fly swatter
 
a drinking straw, a tray, and a medicine dropper...


A friend I've had since Junior High stopped by
to enjoy some bubble action with her younger son

and as the children played

we chatted
and laughed
and reminisced

about when we were kids ourselves

and agreed that the time seemed to be going too fast!

That's why it's time to do
whatever God has put in us to do...

Time to get up and...

fulfill our purpose
reach our goals

(and ironically enough)

as we were
saying it

her son was
showing it

so

we watched
we learned
we admired


and remembered that

the best way
the perfect way
the only way

to ever truly reach our higher

purpose...
goal...

is through

focused heart
determined mind

and with hands and eyes lifted to the Lord in praise!
 
 
What are you trying to reach?

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for a fun children's story
and more bubble fun!!

Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Remember the Way Home

We piled six bikes 
onto the back of her truck...

her bike
my bike
her son's bike
my son's bike
her daughter's bike
my daughter's bike

Since our hubbies had to work
(and school was closed)   

it didn't take a mathematician 
to figure out that...

bikes + kids + holiday 
(in Southern CA) 

= the perfect beach day

She came to pick us up, and once all of our bikes 
were strategically placed onto the back of her truck

we climbed in...

my daughter
her daughter
her son
my son
me
her

and we set out for another
family field trip adventure...
  
Once at the beach

we found parking
unloaded the bikes and
took off

until the children noticed 
a sand dune inviting them to...

veer off the trail
hop off of their bikes and
run across the sandy slopes to explore

She and I stayed back to chat, but when we 
looked up a moment later, our boys were gone

"Where are your brothers?"

we shouted over to the girls 

as they pointed down the other 
side of the hill toward the ocean

Well it doesn't take a mathematician
to figure out that...


two boys + sand + water
= a muddy mess

"Tell the boys to come back up"

and with that
the girls also disappeared

And for a moment...
in the silence...

we wondered
we watched
we waited

with only remnants 
of childhood still visible

a deserted bike
an empty hill 

  
Until one...

two...

three...
four...

children were back on the hill

(and in that moment) 

I realized that motherhood is about...

allowing your children the freedom to explore

the other side of the hill
the ocean side of the hill

without you

and it can be scary

not being able to

see them
reach them
touch them

and knowing there is a great big ocean
ready to swallow them whole

(just as would life itself)

but you 

remind yourself
as you stand 

watching the hill in faith 

because

you also know
that they know 

that the only way home 
is on this side of the hill

Monday, April 21, 2014

What We Have Really Learned from the Resurrection


I was standing in the hallway sorting laundry when my son, half asleep,
started talking before even opening his eyes...

"I just had the most amazing dream, Mom..."

he said as he proceeded to tell me about his dream of a

seemingly awesome,
yet impossible task

for an 11-year old to accomplish

I only listened, but he also believed...

he said

"and I know that it is possible because
I've seen people do things even harder than that"

and as I finished sorting

the laundry
his comments
my thoughts

It occurred to me...

This is the real lesson from the Resurrection!

Jesus died and rose again

a seemingly awesome,
yet impossible task

but when we embrace His Gospel

His death
His burial
His resurrection

with

our death (repentance)
our burial (water baptism)
our resurrection (the indwelling of His Spirit)

we come to understand that through Him we can also accomplish the seemingly impossible
we come to understand that what we have really learned from the Resurrection

is that

when life knocks you down...

get up

when friends

doubt you...
betray you...
deny you...

get up

and even if your enemies

capture you...
beat you...
and surround to watch as you slowly die...

look to heaven
pray their forgiveness
close your eyes to rest a while

and then...

GET UP!

Tuesday, April 15, 2014

"APFLH" Children's Art Studio... Adult Session

Last month I cancelled our
 
The reason?
 
I was asked to present a play-inspired workshop for a group
of Early Childhood Educators in the Los Angeles area!!
 
So I... 
 
put a closed sign on our door
packed up my materials
and took the show on the road!
 

Resource and Idea Table

Dramatic Play


w/ Asian inspired restaurant props and
chopsticks (for fine motor development)
 
inspired by the book...

"Lion Dancer"
by Kate Waters and Madeline Slovenz-Low


Play Dough Monster Creations


Homemade Play Dough (not pictured)
Play Dough tools
 
inspired by the book...

"Go Away Big Green Monster"
by Ed Emberley


Dinosaur Babies


Repurposed Box- (with a trash bag liner)
Bird Seed- (used as a substitute for sand)
Cups for scooping
Toy Dinosaurs
 
inspired by the read-along...

"Dinosaur Babies"
by Lucille Recht Penner

The Music Box


Paint Dot Art on Paper Towels


and a...

"Things that Grow"
Food Collage


Grocery store ads or cooking magazines
Play Dough scissors
Construction Paper
Glue
 
inspired by the book...

"Growing Vegetable Soup"
by Lois Ehlert
 
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My take-away message is always to...
 
keep it "hands-on"
follow the children's lead
and learn to use what you have!
 

These repurposed school fundraiser boxes for...
 
Before...
 
 
After...
 
Marble Painting/Waffle Ball Painting



Marbles or Waffle Balls- (depending on the ages of the children)
Box- (repurposed box or small pencil box)
Paper
Paint
 
inspired by the story...

"Little Blue and Little Yellow"
by Leo Lionni
 
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I have found that not only do I enjoy inspiring children,
 I also enjoy inspiring the adults who work with them

 
The best way to make a difference in the world
is through the life of a child!

Up next...

Friday, April 4, 2014

Get Naked (A Mature Thought)

I had gone to the mall alone with my two babies...



one in pull-ups
one in diapers

one with a sippy-cup
one with a bottle

both asleep

and strapped safely into their double-stroller

My dilemma?

I had to use the bathroom...
and it could NOT wait until I got home

So I did what I had to do...

I pushed my double stroller into the restroom
entered the stall
pulled my sleeping babies in as close as possible
and proceeded to use the bathroom

...with the door wide open!

Complete strangers walked by, noticing, and no one said a word

I had never imagined that becoming a mother would change my perspective so much, but in that moment, my children's safety was more important than my pride

Mothers do what they have to do...

and several years later, as my cousin prepared for the birth of her first child
I remembered that day

and shared with her my thought,
that for mothers,

perhaps the real purpose of delivery
is to deliver you

from the burden of what other people

say
do
think

because once you're a parent, you can't let those things move you

Your body

changes
grows
stretches beyond recognition

and then

just when you think you've had enough you must find new strength to

release
push and
deliver

that which has grown

And so using the bathroom with the door open is brought into perspective, because after all,

Nobody gives birth fully clothed...

you have to first get naked!

Once to conceive
and again
to deliver

And in that very act
of getting naked

lies the vulnerability
the humility
the gracefulness

that opens the door to intimacy

Our Lord showed us that as He allowed them to

strip Him
torture Him
mock Him

as He willingly bore the shame

to deliver me
to rescue me

because in that moment my safety was more important than His pride

His act of

vulnerability
humility
humanity

opened the door to our intimacy...

And when we fully realize this

we have no other choice but to come to Him

sincerely
respectfully
repent fully

and allow our hearts to get naked before Him

knowing that He

sees it all
flaws and all

and loves us anyway
and has taken away all of that shame

since He...
when He...

decided to first
get naked

Thursday, March 6, 2014

ONE mistake... FOUR weeks of fun!

Becoming a mother and early childhood educator has allowed me to reconnect to the childlike persistence and resilience that we so often have to fight for as adults.  The night I spilled cornmeal became a defining moment in my personal and professional journey as I learned to see more.  And although it has been almost two years since that lesson, I continue to see more (from the creation of a "Who Spilled the Cornmeal?" child development workshop, to an article proposal for an online child care publication that has been accepted,) my message to you is...

"Don't allow one mistake to keep you floored
Get up and use THAT to make something beautiful"

Please read the entire original post here


to discover how one mistake led to four weeks of fun!

The activities for the first three days included using our sensory table for...

Cornmeal and funnels
Beans and Cornmeal
Cornmeal racetrack

On days four and five the children enjoyed...

Cornmeal and colored sand art
Cornmeal tracing 

During week 2 we introduced...

Cornmeal and rainbow rice
Cornmeal maracas
Blindfold sensory game
Cornmeal sand castles
Cornmeal textured painting

Click here to read the interesting thing that happened
during week 3 when we made cornmeal play dough


and finally click here for week 4 activities and a video... 

Cornmeal letter search
Cornmeal goop
Play dough sensory pie
Cornmeal and shaving cream


We had such a great time making the most of one mistake, but we
know that there are even more activities that we could have done!

How would you have used the spilled cornmeal?

Sharing this over at No Time For Flash Cards and also at
Living Well Spending Less for the 1-year anniversary of Thrifty Thursday!