Thursday, April 18, 2013

"APFLH" Children's Art Studio- Celebrate With Me

"Week of the Young Child"  
April 14-20, 2013

is the time of year set aside for us to celebrate the fact that

children need to play
children learn through play
children learn best through play

Here are some of the activities we presented in our 
Children's Art Studio...

"The Little Red Hen"
an old folk tale 
 "I Can Do It"
Sensory Table

Bird Seed
Recycled Egg Cartons

"The One and Only Special Me"
by Rozanne Lanczak Williams

"Look at Me"
Frame Decorating Activity

Small Wooden Frames
Glitter Glue
White Glue
Colored Tissue Paper Squares

"I Can"
Magnetic Letters Scramble Board Activity

accompanied by a Bilingual audiobook

 "I Can! Yo Puedo!" 
by Gladys Rosa Mendoza


and one of our absolute favorites...

"Me and My Senses"
by Jane Sweeny

"Using My Senses"
Fine Motor Skills Puffy Painting

Foam Squares
Homemade Puffy Paint (recipe found here)

So take the time to slow down, pull up a seat, and read...
to yourself and also with a child!

Next we're celebrating with... "Nine Candles"

Saturday, April 6, 2013

The Same Black Dress (Part 3)

What an amazing week of discovery and reflection this has been!

It all started with one simple black dress and

a commitment to a young lady whom I've never met, making
a commitment to help other young ladies whom I've also never met

I was...

proud my daughter wanted to join me in the endeavor
excited to try different ways to wear my "Same Black Dress"
thrilled to be featured by one of my favorite new bloggers


during this experience I realized that sometimes

"the 'more' we're searching for, is really less"

Let's have a quick recap, shall we?

step 1: don "Little Black Dress"
step 2: add accessories
step 3: strike a pose
step 4: smile
step 5: repeat


Click to see my "Same Black Dress" weekend wear styling options!

Friday, April 5, 2013

The Same Black Dress (Part 2)

Early this week I shared with a colleague that I would be participating in Sheyenne's "Dress For Change" Consumerism Project by wearing the same dress every day.  She suggested that I refrain from telling the other ladies, and wait to see how many days it would take for someone to notice

Well today marked the end of the work week, and I have worn the "same black dress" to work



NO ONE noticed!

Of course I never expected any of the ladies to mention it,
but today, when I mentioned it

they were all clueless

and then when I explained and pulled out my camera
to show them pictures from the week

they were all shocked

Then I thought about...

the erroneous number of times I have complained of "nothing to wear"


and I realize the truth of the matter is

I have too much to wear
we all have too much

But I love how living a life of gratitude and grace

brings lessons



to promote

new perspective

and this "Dress For Change" has shown me that...

"Nothing to wear"
simply doesn't exist for us

and I

should never
even think

of muttering those words

ever again!


Day 3

"Same Black Dress" worn as a foundation under another sheer dress
w/ a black velvet vest

"Same Black Skirt"
paired w/ rainbow checkered shirt

and matching fingernails!

Day 4

I wanted to wear my favorite earrings (from my local Dollar store)
so I built the outfit around them pairing two shirts on top of my "Same Black Dress"

and my daughter wore her...

black and pink leggings
"Dream, Love, Smile" t-shirt

paired w/ her 
"Same Black Skirt"

Check out our end of week review here!

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

The Same Black Dress (Part 1)

This week my daughter and I are supporting Sheyenne's
Dress For Change fashion consumerism project.

The objective... to raise funds and awareness for underprivileged girls in Africa
The challenge... to wear the same black dress for 7 days (with gratitude and grace)

Here's what we're wearing...

Day 1 

Day 2 

Click here to see the next 2 days...

 or here to see the week in review!

Monday, April 1, 2013

Didn't You Wear That Yesterday?

I'm not exactly sure why our society has us so obsessed with...

our appearance
our clothing
our perception

(of what others are thinking about us)

but I had my first experience with this when I was in Elementary School

One day my grandpa came to pick me up from school and informed me that I would be spending the night at his house because my mother was in the hospital.  Even though my mommy was sick, and my daddy had to work the night shift, I knew I was in good hands and had everything that I could possibly need.

good food
clean clothes
my own warm bed
lots of love

There was only one problem...

The clothes that I kept at my grandparents' house were CHURCH clothes, and I may have only been in the second grade, but I already had enough sense to know that you can't wear CHURCH clothes to SCHOOL! 

So I made a decision...

I would wear the same pants that I had on, the very next day.

I got up the next morning, took a bath, and put on my same gray pants with a clean white button down (CHURCH clothes) shirt.  My grandma couldn't understand my reasoning, and she tried to sway me by reminding me that I had a closet full of clean clothes to choose from.  I reminded her that I couldn't get on the monkey bars wearing a frilly dress.

I would rather wear the same pants to school 2 days in a row, than be caught in a church dress at school.  It seems absolutely ridiculous to me now that I would be worried about clothing and other people's perception of my clothing while my mother "lay dying" in a hospital bed. 

I had bigger things to think about,
but instead I was worrying over clothes.  

I decided to lay low in the hopes that no one would notice that I was wearing a repeat.  I made it through a good portion of the day with little attention and we were lining up after recess when it happened...

One of the boys in the class turned and looked at me and asked, "Didn't you have on those pants yesterday?"  And before I could even blink, my best friend turned and looked at him and answered,

"Have you ever heard of a washing machine?"

I breathed a sigh of relief because that was the end of that. 

Since she had my back (Thank you, Chanea!), and spoke up for me,
no one ever dared mention it again.

Until today...

when I read about what this High School student is proposing for her Senior Project,
and it struck a nerve with me. 

So I have decided to join her "Dress for Change" movement
by wearing the same black dress for 7 days in a row!

No child should ever have to miss school
because they fear what others will say or do, and

no child should ever fear hearing the mere words...

"Didn't You Wear that Yesterday?"

Click here to see what happened next!